Standing In Your Truth

Hey Love Bugs!!!


So I was scrolling through Facebook today. The usual was up and down my feed, social injustices, people inspiring others, food posts, and pretty much the things I am into. I am particular on what I allow myself to be exposed to on a daily basis. I deleted over 1000+ "friends" on Facebook. Weeded out the amount of people on my private Instagram and even unfollowed people on my public one. I have never been the hood girl, always been the girl who grew up in different areas and never fit in. I was always popular, but always misunderstood on many levels. I had to learn how to stand in my truth at a young age. So I went to school with hood people they made fun of me cause I "talked white", when I went to "proper" schools I was the "token black girl with sass".

Back to the post Vastia...

I say all that to say that as my life took this major turn in the past year, I have been blessed. Blessed in the sense I can finally live my life without fear of my past. So what brought this on? K. Michelle's interview with Forbes.  Her reflection on life and herself was something I could relate to on such a deeper level.

"I’m going to get into the music that I feel, that I love, and I’m not going to let anybody box me because of the color of my skin or my past. I’m going to do the re-packaging, and I’m going to do one more album. If I’m not allowed to sing the music that I want to sing, then I’m prepared to walk away."

Click Here  for more of the K. Michelle On "Poli-tricks" And The Business Of Reality sit down. 

What do you think about what she said? Are you glad she is loving who she is and who she was?

Have you gotten to that point in life or are you sill working on it? 

Reality T.V

I am honestly sick and tired of people complaining about the way reality t.v has gotten. Get the freak over it! We know scenes are scripted. That's why we watch. We know they have nice things. that's why we watch. We know that they have DRAMA. That's why we watch. We know that they have drinking problems. That's why we watch. It is sooo annoying to see all these posts and videos about how they hate the wayy they got. Little advice: Stop watching it then! Seriously there are too many other shows to watch or better yet go find a hobby, go do something else with your hour or 30 minutes. Spend time with your child or something, go to the gym you been avoiding since you got your membership... Something! Like I swear people need to understand the more you watch to talk about how much you hate the show the more views they get, the more views they get the more episodes come on, the more episodes that come on the more money they get and I don't care what no one says if you were getting the type of money they are getting you not getting off any got damn show.. Period!

Lmao I love how people love to just bash a show every week and every week they say it's scripted but still watch it. Don't complain about something you keep doing.

I love the messes on these reality t.v. shows it's not my life and I don't have to deal with the drama, the problems, or the fighting and I love me a little bit of ratchetness every now and again. Need me a weekly dosage of it.


Like I said enjoy the journey I am about to take you on =]